Here I am reflecting on differences between coaching and what we understand as tutoring in universities.
As dancer, I was coached. I was guided and supported to achieve a certain goal, to do a certain step or trick. It was of course a learning experience, but it was very confined as I had to match expectations. Well, ballet for sure has them. And then again, yes there was spaces for interpretation opening up.
Coaching is very much an approach where there is a goal and I work with someone to achieve the goal. I repeat steps or sequences endlessly. I get more feedback and improve. I like learning this way as I am used to it from my entire childhood and teenage years. Anything to do with movement or requiring rote learning, this is where I go back to that style.
And yet, tutoring at university was amazing and eye opening. It did not repeatedly give me feedback on the same bit of work. It did not let me repeatedly go round and round with the same thing. I got what I needed - actually far more than that, but I will talk about that later. What I want to focus on is that I was not spoon fed. I could find my own solution to something. I felt free.
Tutoring - especially with dissertations and the thesis - was a conversation with an experienced person who gave me riddles to solve. In the moment, I could not, but I loved running off and finding MY way to solve them, having MY ideas expressed and not having to fit a mould.
When I think back at situations of learning, I have to also admit that yes, I did the proper student thing too. I wanted the tutor to give me the solution without me doing the work. Whenever that happened, it was frustrating. I was grumpy. When I finally took initiative of my own learning of my own approaches to it, then it all got interesting.
So, when you now embark on this journey, bear in mind that we tutor you. We will not give you the answer, we will let you find yours.
We hope you will enjoy the freedom and fascination of exploring knowledge fascinating.
